Wednesday, March 31, 2004

ATTENTION!!!!!!!!

For the females, article is self-explanatory. For the males among you,
please pass on to wives, daughters, friends, etc.

--------------

Something that happened in Katipunan, QC

Dear friends,

Many of you may not have heard of the incident that happened to a friend of
my son last week at about 6:30 pm right in-front of the thickly-populated
area of BPI-Katipunan, near shoppersville. She parked her car right in front
of BPI to make a withdrawal and to do some grocery.

As she was getting into her car after doing her chores, a man suddenly
appeared beside her and tried to bully her into moving to the passenger
seat. when she pressed her car horn to call attention, he pushed her in the
car ad pinned her down with his elbow on her neck. It was a good thing that
she had the presence of mind to continue to struggle and press on her car
horn to catch attention (even if she had to use her foot to do this). Her
assailant even tried to make people believe that it was a domestic matter by
telling the crowd not to get involved as it was a "private matter".

But with the onlookers multiplying by the second, her assailant finally gave
up and ran. that was when she stood up and shouted for help. Thank God the
guy got caught and is now under police custody. Last Saturday, during the
inquest, she told me that what gave her the guts to fight her assailant was
the article "THROUGH A RAPIST'S EYES" forwarded to our e-groups about a week
prior to her attack. I am re-forwarding the article you can find it at the
bottom of this (e-mail) for everyone's benefit. Please tell your friends,
family, and loved-ones about this. It works.

May I just add that to a certain extent, we have to get ourselves involved
if we see violence being committed on anyone like calling on a security
guard or a police officer even if it appears to be a domestic matter. It
seems that a lot of attackers use that tactic to get away with violence.
Not many people know how to take care of themselves whenfaced with such a
situation. Everyone, please be very, very careful.


THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG...
======================================
FYI - Through a rapist's eyes!

A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they
look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are
most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other
hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a
woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women whose
clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to
cut clothing.

3] They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their
purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and
can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from/attacked at is grocery store
parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and
quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to worry about
getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it
only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't
worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other
similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the
attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys
you're not worth it.

=========================================

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you
in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question,
like what time is it, or make general small talk: I can't believe it is so
cold out here, we're in for a bad winter. Now that you've seen their faces
and could identify them in a line-up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and
yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd
leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to
fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and
carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and
holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can do it
by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch
the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy
taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date
rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle
strands the guy needed stitches. Try inching yourself in those places as
hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a
particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is
extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him
want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is
that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start
causing trouble, and he's out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and
bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them
as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I
ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your
surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd
behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel a little
silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.


FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ....

I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some,
where you will go "hmm I must remember that"

After reading, forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be
careful in this crazy world we live in.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If
you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans: if a robber asks for
your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you....
chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you
and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail
lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The
driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating,
working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc.
DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect
opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head,
and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS
AND LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking
garage:

a. Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side
floor, and in the back seat.

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger
door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their
vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the
passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you
may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to
walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better
paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible
places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN!
The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; and even
then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get
you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking,
well-educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of
unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for
help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his
next victim.

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a life.
A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going to send this
to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters,
daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them, as well. Send this to
any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in
as a lot of crazies in it and it's better safe than sorry...

Tuesday, March 30, 2004

ATTENTION!!!!!!

For the females, article is self-explanatory. For the males among you,
please pass on to wives, daughters, friends, etc.

--------------

Something that happened in Katipunan, QC

Dear friends,

Many of you may not have heard of the incident that happened to a friend of
my son last week at about 6:30 pm right in-front of the thickly-populated
area of BPI-Katipunan, near shoppersville. She parked her car right in front
of BPI to make a withdrawal and to do some grocery.

As she was getting into her car after doing her chores, a man suddenly
appeared beside her and tried to bully her into moving to the passenger
seat. when she pressed her car horn to call attention, he pushed her in the
car ad pinned her down with his elbow on her neck. It was a good thing that
she had the presence of mind to continue to struggle and press on her car
horn to catch attention (even if she had to use her foot to do this). Her
assailant even tried to make people believe that it was a domestic matter by
telling the crowd not to get involved as it was a "private matter".

But with the onlookers multiplying by the second, her assailant finally gave
up and ran. that was when she stood up and shouted for help. Thank God the
guy got caught and is now under police custody. Last Saturday, during the
inquest, she told me that what gave her the guts to fight her assailant was
the article "THROUGH A RAPIST'S EYES" forwarded to our e-groups about a week
prior to her attack. I am re-forwarding the article you can find it at the
bottom of this (e-mail) for everyone's benefit. Please tell your friends,
family, and loved-ones about this. It works.

May I just add that to a certain extent, we have to get ourselves involved
if we see violence being committed on anyone like calling on a security
guard or a police officer even if it appears to be a domestic matter. It
seems that a lot of attackers use that tactic to get away with violence.
Not many people know how to take care of themselves whenfaced with such a
situation. Everyone, please be very, very careful.


THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG...
======================================
FYI - Through a rapist's eyes!

A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they
look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are
most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other
hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a
woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women whose
clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to
cut clothing.

3] They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their
purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and
can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from/attacked at is grocery store
parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and
quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to worry about
getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it
only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't
worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other
similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the
attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys
you're not worth it.

=========================================

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you
in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question,
like what time is it, or make general small talk: I can't believe it is so
cold out here, we're in for a bad winter. Now that you've seen their faces
and could identify them in a line-up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and
yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd
leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to
fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and
carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and
holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can do it
by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch
the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy
taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date
rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle
strands the guy needed stitches. Try inching yourself in those places as
hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a
particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is
extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him
want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is
that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start
causing trouble, and he's out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and
bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them
as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I
ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your
surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd
behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel a little
silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.


FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ....

I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some,
where you will go "hmm I must remember that"

After reading, forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be
careful in this crazy world we live in.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If
you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans: if a robber asks for
your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you....
chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you
and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail
lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The
driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating,
working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc.
DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect
opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head,
and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS
AND LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking
garage:

a. Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side
floor, and in the back seat.

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger
door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their
vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the
passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you
may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to
walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better
paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible
places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN!
The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; and even
then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get
you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking,
well-educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of
unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for
help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his
next victim.

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a life.
A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going to send this
to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters,
daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them, as well. Send this to
any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in
as a lot of crazies in it and it's better safe than sorry
lifted from:
http://www.inq7.net/opi/2003/dec/07/opi_iacruz-1.htm

Advice to FPJ

IT is in a spirit of goodwill that I offer this unsolicited advice to Fernando Poe Jr. Quit before it gets worse for you. You are an innocent beguiled by your supposed friends and advisers for their own selfish purposes. Do not allow them to use you.

You are Da King of Philippine Movies with a respectable image and an honest fortune. Your colleagues in the movie industry acknowledge you as a popular actor and a competent director. Your fans adore you. Be content with your lot, which is much more than many people can enjoy.

Bear in mind that as successful as you are in your chosen field, you are not cut out to sit in Malacañang. The position of President of the Philippines requires more than mere acting ability. Your hysterical supporters may elevate you to that office but you will find yourself like a fish out of water.

Those who say the contrary are only flattering and deceiving you. You should realize you cannot solve the nation's ills with only your make-believe machismo. Only last Sunday, you begged off a confrontation with your rivals on the excuse that you were indisposed with the flu. Did you think people would believe that?

You will find during the campaign that your flu will become chronic. Being represented by proxy-and by the pathetic Tito Sotto at that-will make you and him a laughingstock. Your absence at these meetings will only emphasize your ineptness, your ignorance of serious issues. Ang Panday will look timid for not standing up to his enemies.

Even the letter Sotto read for you was dismissed out of hand. Few accepted that you had written it yourself and many chose not to listen to it at all. And my dear naïf who would be the President of the Philippines, why would you choose Sotto as your spokesman and adviser? He is a silly figure in a serious world.

Sotto once bullied a security guard for barring entry of his car without a sticker into a village. He threatened to have the poor fellow fired. He said he scolded the man for preventing the poor from visiting their rich relatives-the sheer hypocrisy of it! Was he protecting the poor visitors or the rich relatives?

Your choice of Sotto as your alter ego is itself proof of poor judgment. I dread the other appointments you will make as President of the Philippines.

Who will be your foreign secretary to represent our country in diplomatic meetings? You and your First Lady will undoubtedly make an attractive couple, but what if the talk veers to global economics and international politics? And if you are invited-and this is a big IF- will you dare speak before the US Congress or the UN General Assembly?

Courage is admirable as you have shown in your movies. But presumptuousness is something else.

You are not even a pale imitation of the charismatic Erap. He preferred to mix with the common people, to speak their language and share their jokes. He had that gift to charm the masses, to make them believe he had their welfare at heart while plundering the public coffers. You don't have that kind of appeal.

You are the hero with the staccato punches and the fast lethal bullets, but you are not one with the bakya crowd as Erap was. Erap was all man to them and he proved it with his stable of mistresses. They admired and envied him for this. Your extramarital peregrinations, if any, are offset by the vision of your beautiful and virtuous wife. But she makes you less of the lovable scamp Erap was, and is.

With the open support of Sen. Edgardo Angara, you will probably be the standard-bearer of the Laban ng Demokratikong Pilipino. You may find, though, that you will be no more than a puppet on a string pulled by your politician managers or a mere dummy mouthing their platitudes. You will be but a stalking horse or like the Trojan horse of that mythical play.

There is strong talk that you are being set up to be only a transition president pending the conversion of the present government into the parliamentary system. The secret scenario is that Eduardo Cojuangco will be the prime minister with you as only the ceremonial head of state. That is why he is reportedly prepared to spend millions for your victory, which will only be his stepping stone to Malacañang.

Are you willing to accept that minor supporting role, you who are acknowledged as Da King of Philippine Movies? After having been elected by direct mandate of the people, will you meekly surrender your primacy to one who has himself been rejected for the position you occupy? More to the point, will you participate in this conspiracy to victimize not only you yourself but the people as well?

In Ralph Waldo Emerson's charming poem, "the mountain and the squirrel had a quarrel, and the former called the latter 'little prig.'" Unfazed, the squirrel retorted, "Talents differ, all is well and wisely put. If I cannot carry forests on my back, neither can you crack a nut."

Learn from this poem, FPJ. Be humble and take pride in your humility. "I think it no disgrace to occupy my space," the squirrel said, and so should you with your respectable fame and affluence. You cannot carry a heavy load as the President of the Philippines. but you certainly can crack a nut.

Sunday, March 28, 2004

Styles of Courtship

THE VARSITY DUDE
Opening line: "You know what, every time you watch me play, I feel so
inspired "
His game plan: He's gonna wink at you or point at you whenever he
scores
First move: He'll give you free tickets to his games
First gift: His team jacket or a UST growling tigers yellow jacket....
First date: He's gonna take you to a UAAP game between ATENEO and
BARANGKA
HIGH SCHOOL
Phone habit(s): He always talks about his great heroic game saving
shots
Courting endurance: Really depends on how long the off-season is
How he will propose: After a game and winning the MVP award, he'll ask
you to
be his girlfriend

THE COMPUTER KID
Opening line: ..Hi!!!...ASL
His game plan: He's gonna give you all the anti-nuking devices to keep
you
protected
First move: He'll give you a cyber flower
First gift: New software especially made for you
First date: He's gonna take you to Cyber Cafe and you're gonna chat and
surf
together
Phone habit(s): He always talks about computer jargons, you never
understand
them though
Visiting hours: Whenever your computer breaks down, he'll be there
Courting endurance: It really depends on how much more free Internet
hours he
has left
How he will propose: He's gonna ask you over one of the chat channels

THE GEEK FREAK
Opening line: "Hey groovy chick!!"
His game plan: He's gonna do all your homework until you realize his
importance
First move: He's gonna do all your reports and term papers
First gift: A book on Chemistry made easy starring Big Bird and Pong
Pagong
First date: He's gonna take you to a very silent place... the library
Phone habit(s): He always tries to review you for upcoming tests and
quizzes
Visiting hours: Everytime you have work that requires him to go to your
house
Courting endurance: As long as you need someone to do your school load
How he will propose: He's gonna ask you in between the bookshelves in
the
library

THE RICH KID
Opening line: "So whatta you want?" (flips the wallet open with all the
dangling credit cards)
His game plan: He's gonna give you anything money can buy
First move: He'll take you for a joy ride in his two-seater roadster
First gift: Anything with a price tag not lower than 10,000
First date: He's gonna take you in his yacht for a cruise
Phone habit(s): He keeps on asking if there's anything you need, and he
means
ANYTHING
Visiting hours: whenever you're available
Courting endurance: usually lasts long enough for you to be as rich as
he is
How he will propose: He'll rent TIME SQUARE and propose on the big
screen

MR. SMOOTH (mag-ingat sa style ng taong ito,ayon sa istatistika sya ang
may
pinakamaraming nabibiktima)
Opening line: Usually he'll call the girl and make her "bola"
His game plan: He'll be friends with you first and then he'll go for
the kill
afterwards
First move: He'll be callin' you ever night to try to be as close to
you as
possible
First gift: He'll give you roses or a teddy bear
First date: He's gonna take you for a stroll at the mall
Phone habit(s): He always makes you "bola"
Visiting hours: Whenever he can think of an excuse to go to your place
Courting endurance: As long as he doesn't get that famous line "..let's
be
friends na lang"
How he will propose: Over the phone (around midnight in most cases)

THE HEADBANGER
Opening line: "Pank's nat ded!!"
His game plan: He's gonna keep on asking you to watch his gigs
First move: He'll give you tickets just for you to watch his gigs
First gift: Some heavy metal CD you can't seem to appreciate
First date: He's gonna take you to Club Dredd
Phone habit(s): He keeps on playing the guitar over the phone, heavy
metal
stuff of course!
Visiting hours: Everytime he doesn't have a gig
Courting endurance: As long as you don't say No!
How he will propose: He's gonna dedicate this song to you and propose
afterwards

THE PLAYBOY
Opening line: "You're my one and only."
His game plan: As far as he's concerned, you're just one of his many
options
First move: He's gonna call you EVERY OTHER NIGHT (guess who he calls
on
those other nights?!?!?)
First gift: A Parker pen, the ones that can be bought in packs (guess
where
the other pens went?!)
First date: He's gonna take you to a place where he's sure that he
can't be
spotted by his other girls...someplace like...McDonalds, Laguna
Visiting hours: Every other day (I wonder why?!?)
Courting endurance: As long as he gets away with it
How he will propose: Like how he asks every other girl.. Can you be my
girlfriend??"

THE FLASH
Opening line: "Will you be my girlfriend?"
His game plan: He'll ask you as soon as possible
First move: He's gonna ask you
First gift: Oh yah , while he's asking you he's gonna give you roses
First date You have to give him an answer first before he takes you out
Phone habit(s) You never really never got ! to talk to him. He is so
goddamn
fast!!)
Visiting hours: The only time ! he's gonna visit is when he's gonna ask
you
How he will propose: refer to opening line

THE JOLOG
Opening line: "I CRUSH YOU" (what he means is, he likes you very much!)
His game plan: He's gonna collect coins so he can call you from the
payphone
First move: He's gonna follow you around like some goon and then he's
gonna
pick your pocket to get info about you.
First gift: He's gonna give you a pirated tape of the Streetboys'
latest
album with the special participation of Aiza Seguerra
First date: He's gonna take you to Ever Gotesco Commonwealth to watch a
tagalog movie
Phone habit(s): He tries to make you bola by comparing you to Sabrina
M. and
Nora Aunor
Visiting hours: As long as the jeepneys are not on strike
Courting endurance: As long as..."He Crushes You"
How he will propose: "I lab u , puwede ba kitang maging syota?!?!"

Wednesday, March 03, 2004

...just wanna share something i got from the email...i really wanted to delete this already because i can't relate fully..you know, duh?! as if i had an ex already?! but in some terms, i can somehow feel the same way...especially the "in love" part...hehehe...its March already, but i guess "love is in the air" still..hehehe..as always!Ü ...wishing you people to have a fun-filled and an overflowing supply of love, today, tomorrow, and at all times!Ü good day!Ü

Noon nung naghiwalay kau ng mahal mo sobrang
sakit ng naramdaman mo. Ung tipo bang guguho ang
buong mundo sau at para bang tinatawag ka na ng
impyerno dahil gusto mo ng magpakamatay. Grabe
na itech! Ang mga tao nga nman may pagkatanga tlga
pag nagmamahal at lalo na pag naiiwanan.

D mo namamalayan, tapos na pala ang chapter ng
life mo na un. Sa wakas, ur doing great na,
coping with a much better life without anyone
special in ur life except family and
friends. “Haaayyy”, sa isip-isip mo, “ang sarap
pala maging single!” ganda mo neng!!! Feel na
feel mo ang pagtingin mo sa ibang masterpieces
ng Diyos na walang guilt na nararamdaman na baka
may magalit sau at makasakit ka ng ibang tao. Ayos
ang buhay mo ngaun un ang nasa isip mo. Ang sarap
pala maging free at maraming maraming salamat sa
kumag mong ex. Kung noon, sobrang galit ka na sa
mundo dahil sa sinapit mo sa walanghiya mong
kasintahan, ngaun feel na feel mo ang ganda pala
ng buhay at d mo na kailangan pagsisihan at
pagmukmukan ang nangyari senyo ng ex mong praning.

Months after, enjoy na enjoy ka tlga sa pagiging
single mo. Damang-dama mo ang paglalamyerda ng
alam mong wala kang iintidihin na pagpaalaman
kungdi ang ermats at erpats mo lang at pwede ka
ng mahilata’t matulog dahil wala ka na ding
tatawagan pagdating mo sa bahay nio. Ang mga
girl friends mo tuwang-tuwa kc nakabalik ka na sa
kanila at sa mga dati mong ginagawa noong hindi
pa kau ng ex mo. Ang boys ay more pila sa harap
ng bahay nio dahil nalaman nila na its their turn
to make u theirs. Ahihihihi… ang haba ng hair ng
lola mo! Sa isip-isip mo, “I don’t wanna rush
things, yaan ko nga clang manligaw. I’ll take my
sweet time. Collect and collect then select!
Haaaaaayyyyyyy….. ang sarap maging single!”

Pag nasa campus ka, feel na feel mo ang ganda
ganda mo. Alam na kc ng buong sangkatauhan na
wala na kau at ur so damn proud to let them know
that u survived after a world-crumbling break up.
Ur eyeing guys, ur making urself appreciate other
people more and in particular, MEN! Ang araw mo
ngaun ay d na kumpleto kung wala kang mga love
letters na narerecieve mula sa mga admirers mo
na noon ay nde mo alam na nageexist pala. Si ex
nman pag nakikita mo sa campus, dedma ever ka lang.
mas maganda ka ngaun sa paningin ng lahat ng tao
at ano ka, pati ex mo ay namamangha sa kagandahan
mo ngaun. Ahh, sweet revenge… mas ok pala ang
ganto kc magmukmok ka sa kasulok-sulukan ng kwarto mo.

Eto na ang eksena ng buhay mo, sa lahat ng mga
nanliligaw sau may isa kang partikular na tao na
lagi mong hinahanap. “Parang cute cia”, un ang
isip mo “kaso sayang ka dahil d pa ko ready.”
Yuuunnnn!!!!! Madrama na ang buhay. Nagmaganda
daw. U go out with the cutie and then dump him
coz ur not ready,, duh?! Why go out if you’d
dump him later?! Something fishy… sabi ng frends
mo, “Girl, parang iba ka ata ngaun ahh...
Blooming?!” ikaw nman, “d sisterette, nagpapa-
cute lang…” nagpapacute?! Kanino?! Ahihihi… yan
ang tanong…

Sa mga babae, ang pagpapaligaw ay isang sign na
may chance maging kau,, parang cnabi nia na rin
na, “Oo, gusto kita. Yun nga lang, nde pa kita
mahal…” ganto un, samin tinitignan na namen kung
magki-click tau pag cnagot naming kau. Getting
to know each other stage ba…

Eto na ang siste, gustong gusto mo na ang
particular na guy na un, sobra! U start hanging
out together often, ung tipong wala ng kasamang
tropa, just the two of u. ngaun pano mo
malalaman kung in-love ka na ulit after a really bad break-up.

Here are some tips:

1. KUNG NOON, D MO CIA FEEL KASAMA,
NGAUN DAMANG-DAMA MO NA ANG PRESENCE NIA.

-Yes yes yo, tuwang-tuwa ka na sa knya. Kung
noon, ayaw na ayaw mong magpahatid sa kanya,
ngaun ikaw na ang nagsasabi kung anong oras ka
nia dapat sunduin at ihatid sa bahay nio.

2. NAMIMISS MO NA CIA.

-Kung noon, naiirita ka dahil sunod cia ng sunod
ngaun tila ok lang na magmukha ciang aso na
nakabuntot palagi sau. Pag wala cia, d ka nia
maitext dahil may klase cia, understood na un.
ngaun ikaw na ang nagttxt sa knya. Minsan puro
quote lang para magpapansin ka saknya, minsan pa-
miss call lang pag paubos na ang credits o kaya
pamysterious effect lang para pag free na cia e
tumawag cia agad sau para itanong kung may
problema ba at pag medyo malakas ang loob mo,
tntxt mo nalang cia ng, “Miss u na po…”

3. NAPAPASMILE KA NLNG BGLA PAG NAALALA MO CIA.

-Pag may kasma kang iba, natatawa cla sau dahil
ngumingti ka mag-isa at ano pa nga ba ineng, si
Mr. Wonderful ang nasa isip mo. Naalala mo ang
mga corny niang jokes na walang ibang
nakakaintindi kung nde kaung dalawa lang at
shempre pa, naalala mo ang mga cute smiling eyes
nia pag cnasabi nia sau na, “Alam mo, mahal po
kita…”

4. ANG ISANG ARAW NA WALA CIA SA TABI
MO AY TILA 48 YEARS PARA SAU.

-Sus ko, para itong number 1 sa list ko. Ang
pagkamiss mo sa mga dimples nia pag ngumingiti
cia, ang pagpapa-cute nia sau at wag ka ang
paghawak nia sa kamay mo habang nagddrive pauwi
sa inyo (at take note, manual ang auto nia kaya
plus pogi points sau ang effort ng boylet mo na
hawakan ang kamay mo habang nagddrive.) At pag
medyo mahaba ang hair ng lola mo, ang pasulyap
na tingin ng boylet mo with matching killer smile
kahit nagddrive na tila ikaw ang kalsada na
dinadaanan nio pauwi.

5. PANSININ ANG KAMA MO NA PARANG
WALANG BEDSHEET DAHIL SA KAKAIKOT MO DAHIL CIA PA DIN
ANG NASA ISIP MO BAGO KA MATULOG.

-haaaayyyy, common ba? Ganto tlga pag inlababo
ka. Kahit nga unan mo ay pinagdidiskitahan mo na
pagpraktisang yakapin para pag cnagot mo cia e
alam mo na kung pano ulit yumakap ng tama (patay
tau jan!!!).

6. D KA MAKATULOG AT D MAKAKAIN.

-truelala ever, d ka makatulog tlga sa kakaisip
sa mala-anghel niang mukha. eto pa ang siste,
kahit tom jones ka na e parang lagi kang walang
gana kumain. Bakit?! Dahil busog ka na sa
kakaisip sa kanya.

(tip to para sa mga gustong pumayat, aber,
humayo’t maghanap ng aaswangin!!!!)

7. ANG LAMAN NG BIBIG AT BOKABULARYO MO
AY ANG PANGALAN NIA.

-hala, sa lahat ng pinaguusapan nio ng tropa mo
kahit anong demonyong topic pa yan e lagi pa din
ciang kasama sa usapan.

Eto ang magandang example, usapang pagkain, may
mababanggit ang sisterette mo na food, imbes na
isali mo ang sarili mo sa chikahan nila ang
ieexample mo ay: “tlga?! Si Carlo din mahilig sa
sisig…” sus ko, kelan nio pa naging sister si Carlo?!

Dba dapat sarili mo ang isinasali mo sa usapan?
Dba dapat ang sasabihin mo ay, ”ay naku sistah,
ayaw ko ng sisig, macholesterol!! Ang figure ko,
masisira!!!”.

8. PINAGSESELOSAN MO NA ANG EX NIA NA
DATI E ISANG ORDINARYONG PANGALAN LANG SA
PANDINIG MO.

-kung noon pag nagkkwento cia tungkol sa ex nia,
wa ka care kung cno man cia.

Oo ka lang ng oo para nde cia mapahiya pag
pinaguusapan nio ung bruhildang un. Aba ngaun
nag-iba na ang ihip ng hangin. kung dati ay galing
Pacific Ocean ang hangin, ngaun e southwest
monsoon ito dahil pag naririnig mo ang pangalan
ng babaeng un e nagpapanting ang tenga mo.
Umuusok ang ilong mo sa galit dahil ayaw mong
makarinig ng kahit ano tungkol dun. Aba aba,
galit nga ba yan o selos?!

TIP:

WAG KANG MAGALIT SA MALDITA NIANG EX DAHIL KUNG
NDE PA CLA NAGHIWALAY E NDE KA NIA MALILIGAWAN.

NGAUN, IMBES NA MAGALIT KA, JUST SAY A LITTLE
PRAYER OF THANKS

THEN WHISPER TO URSELF, “SORRY, HE’S MINE NA.
MAS MAGANDA KC AKO SAU…

(ahihihihi… o dba ang ganda mo neng!!!)”

9. PINAKILALA MO NA CIA SA PARENTS AT
SA KUYA MO NA MALA-PAUL ARTADI KUNG MAGBANTAY, SA
MGA SISTAHS MONG LAMAN NG WASHROOM DAHIL RETOUCH
NG RETOUCH (at kahit ung mga sistahs mong laging
missing in action ay hinagilap mo pa para lang
ipakilala cia), SA MGA TROPA MONG GUYS NA PURO
PRANING AT PARANG MGA IMBESTIGADOR KUNG
MAGTANONG SA MGA MANLILIGAW MO (kulang na na lang hingan
nila ng resume na may 2 na 2x2 picture at
N.B.I. clearance ang bago mong boylet), SA MGA
HIGHSCHOOL CLASSMATES MO NA WALANG KAALAM-ALAM
SA MGA NANGYAYARI SA BUHAY MO AT KUNG KANIKANINO
PANG PONTIO PILATO SA TABI TABI NA FEEL MO KA-
CLOSE MO NA KAHIT NDE (ex. Ang manong fishballs
na araw araw mong inaabangan sa harap ng bahay
nio para lumafang pag hapon).

-sus, u try to call everyone close to you and
gather them kc ipapakilala mo na ang lalaking
nagpapangiti sau sa araw araw na ginawa ng
diyos,
ang lalaking lagi mong naiisip bago ka matulog
at pagkagising na pagkagising mo, ang lalaking
nagsusundo’t hatid sau araw araw, ang lalaking
laman ng bokabularyo mo at ang lalaking mahal
mo.(finally!) o dba?! D ka naman mag-aaksayang ng
oras at ng piso (minsan otcho pa nga pantawag)
para lang ipakilala ang taong d mo nman gusto
dba?

10. ANO BA ANG MAGANDANG DATE?!

-eto na, more isip ka na kung kelan mo cia
sasagutin. Isip isip…

and after the all the thinking at ang
paghahanap
ng magandang date sa kalendaryo mo na puro mhin
ang laman, u declare to urself na, “damn shit,
I’m in-love!!!!”. Awww, u deserve to be happy
and shempre u deserve someone who’ll love u as much
as u loved ur impaktong ex before.

Aba girl, prinsesa ka na ngaun at may prince
charing este prince charming na nairescue ka sa
tower ng tralala. at ano pa nga ba d ka na ung
babaeng nagpapakabaliw dahil iniwan cia ng kupal
niang boyfriend. Go ahead and tell him u love
him too because its not everyday u’ll meet that
someone who has the magic to make u fall in-love
and one more thing, fall but don’t stumble; love
but never be obsessed, be hurt but never ever
keep the pain…

“WHEN GOD CLOSES THE DOOR, DON’T WORRY. TRUST IN
HIM BECAUSE HE WILL OPEN THE WINDOWS SO THAT HIS
OTHER BLESSINGS COULD OVERFLOW…”


“GOD TAKES AWAY SOMETHING NOT BECAUSE YOU DIDN’T
DESERVE IT BUT BECAUSE HE HAS SOMETHING MUCH BETTER TO GIVE…”

"MaY u FiNd D TrUe MeAnInG oF tHe DaY tHrOuGh
GiViNg LoVe & NoT eXpEcTiNg LoVe To CoMe By..
DoN't ExPeCt It FrOm SoMeOnE yOu LoVe InStEaD
ExPeCt It FrOm SoMeOnE wHo LoVeS YoU.."

Monday, March 01, 2004

ANG MGA BABAE TALAGA OO
by redrope


*gabe. usapang lalake*


*sindi ng yosi*


*hithit*


*buga*


Musta na, pare? Ako, okay lang. Eto. Nagmumuni-muni. Nag-iisip.
Minsan talaga may mga bagay na hindi ko maintindihan. Ewan ko ba.





*hinga ng malalim*


Bakit ba ganun pare, ilang beses ko na pinag-aralan pero lagi na lang
lumalabas na parang kahit 'sang anggulo mo tingnan, hindi nagiging
patas para sa mga lalake ang ilang bagay pagdating sa pagmamahal.


*tingin sa stars*


Minsan naiisip ko, alam kaya ng mga babae ang hirap ng lalake na
gumawa ng first move para magtapat ng pagmamahal? E yung hirap na
dinadaanan sa panliligaw at pagsuyo sa mahal nya? Ang feeling ng
masaktan pag nabasted? Malamang-lamang siguro, hindi ano. Wala naman
yata silang alam sa mga paghihirap naten e. Ang alam lang ata nila e
mamili, manakit, at magsaya. Tingin mo?


*tingin sa malayo*


Lagi naman ganun. Una pa lang, lalake na ang naghihirap. Hassle saten
ang panliligaw pero bago pa yun, kung ano pang diskarte ang gagawin
naten para masabi naten sa kanila na mahal natin sila. Alam kaya nila
yun? Mahirap magsabi na mahal mo na yung babae, diba? Tapos liligawan
pa naten. Patutunayan na mahal nga sila. Susuyuin to-the-max.
Maghahatid sa bahay, tutulungan, sasabayan, palalamunin,
pagtyatyagaan, lahat na. Kulang na lang e pagsilbihan mo nang walang
sahod. At ano ang kapalit? Well, depende sa trip nila. Oo tol, sa
trip lang nila. Wala silang pake kesehodang mahal natin talaga sila.
Basta ang alam nila, pag di nila tayo trip, isang malaking HINDE ang
makukuha naten, kahit umiyak pa tayo ng dugo o lumuhod sa mga asing
buu-buo. Para lang silang namimili ng damit na di man lang sinusukat
bago ayawan. Kaya kahit mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal natin, sorry
tayo. Hindi nila alam kung mahal mo sila. Kailangan mong maabot ang
kanilang mga standards o uuwi ka lang na bad trip, iiling-iling, at
minsan, luhaan.


Wala tayong magagawa, marami silang alibi. "Hindi pa 'ko ready eh..",
"Sorry pero I think we should just be friends..", "Ha? Uhhmm..
nagpapatawa ka ba? Hahahaha.." "Better luck next time na lang muna,
okay lang?", "Give me a decade. Pag-iisipan ko muna..", "Para lang
kitang kapatid e..", yaddah yaddah. Isang malaking pagsasaklob ng
langit at lupa 'yon para saten.


*kuha ng bote ng beer*


*lagok*


*lunok*


At hindi lang 'yon tol. Sa pre-relationship stage pa lang yon. Pag
sinagot na nila tayo, satin pa rin ang hassle. Tayo daw ang mga
lalake kaya tayo ang hahawak ng relasyon. Tayo ang aayos kung may
gulo; tayo ang dapat magpapakabait; tayo ang magtatyaga; tayo ang
magiging devoted at faithful; tayo, tayo tayo.


Sila? Ummm? Teka, isipin ko.


Ayun. Sila ang magsasabi kung anong oras kayo dapat magmeet; sila ang
magtetext ng mga mushy at kabalbalang texts; sila ang magdedemand
sayo ng kung anu-ano; sila ang magbabawal; sila ang magsasabi kung
kelan ka dapat mag-shave, kung kelan ka pwedeng tumawag sa bahay
nila, kung kelan sila di dapat bad tripin dahil meron sila, at kung
kelan ka korni. Ewan. Ganun ata talaga.


*kuha ng bote ng beer*


*lagok*


*lunok*


Hindi pa yun tapos pare, dahil dapat tayo ang bahala kung ano ang
magiging takbo ng relasyon. Pag maganda, edi okay. Pag may problema,
kasalanan naten. Haay buhay. Minsan talaga kung tutuusin sakit sila
ng ulo. Kaya lang mahal naten kaya di na natin iniintindi yun.


*hinga ng malalim*


Pero alam mo tol, feeling ko mas sincere pa tayo magmahal sa kanila.
Alam mo yun, iba tayo magmahal e. Hindi lang parang laru-laro lang.
Seryoso. At kung magmahal man tayo, lubus-lubusan. Mas mature. Hindi
yung parang pambata lang gaya nila na kesyo magseselos-selos,
iiyak-iyak, iina-inarte, dadradrama, at kung anu-ano pa. Hindi lang
kababawan. Ka-mushyhan. Kababaihan. Iba tayo pag nagmahal.


*hinga ng malalim*


*tingin sa malayo ulit*


At ito pa ang pinakamasaklap.


*singhot*


Ang ending ng relasyon. Sa mga panahong 'to, either sawa na sila,
hindi na tayo trip, may nahanap na silang better saten, o kaya they
need f*cking space and time muna. Bad trip no? Wala na naman tayong
choice. Sila ang masusunod.


At ano pa ang kasamang hassle don? Syempre wasak na ang imahe naten.
Tayo ang lalabas na may kasalanan. Na playboy. Na nagpapaiyak.


*iiling*


Tayo siyempre ang mga antagonist at sila yung mga bidang inaapi at
parang mga pusang iiyak-iyak. Ang ending: mag-ooffer sila ng
"friendship" kuno matapos tayong pagsawaan, lahat ng gifts naten nasa
kanila, sawi tayo sa pag-ibig, "player" na ang image naten, at higit
sa lahat, mag-iisip kung papaano ipagpapatuloy ang buhay. Maiiwan
tayong tulala, mag-iisip kung saan nagkamali, mamomroblema sa
pag-aadjust sa pagiging single, at di na naman makakatulog.


Haay buhay. Ang hirap maging lalake. Lagi ka na lang naiiwan sa ere.
Ano? Hindi ka na nagsalita? In-love ka no?


Ako, kamusta? Eto. Yoyosi-yosi. Bubuntong-buntong hininga.
Titingin-tingin sa bituin. Mumuni-muni. Lalagok-lagok ng alak.


Ang mga babae talaga, oo.





Ang Mga Lalake Talaga, oo


(tugon kay redrope)


by xristel





Ano ba itong si redrope?


Kaming mga babae na naman ang nakita. Lalake, agrabyado. Lalake,
kinakawawa. Lalake, hindi maintindihan. Hmmp, parang masyado yatang
nagisa ang mga kabaro ko.





Tungkol sa pagiging patas sa ngalan ng pag-ibig, kami naman ang
laging talo a, hindi kayo. Kami ang laging lugi, kami ang laging
nawawalan at iniiwan.


Kapag ngumiti ka na ng konti, nag-ayos ng konti pagkakamalan ka nang
malandi. Hindi pangseryosohang relasyon. Marinig lang nila na malakas
kang magsalita, palengkera ka na. T.O. kagad sa kanila iyon. Mahilig
silang tumingin sa mga babaeng sexy manamit, kulang nalang makita na
kaluluwa. Pero kapag babaeng seryosohin at gustong ligawan dapat
disente, dapat mala-anghel ang mukha, dapat mukhang inosente. Tapos
kami pa raw ang mahilig mamili? Parang baliktad yata?


Ok, ayan nanliligaw na si lalake. Dapat pakipot ka para suyuin ka,
para habulin ka pa lalo. Kapag hindi ka naman nagpakipot "easy to
get" naman ang tingin sa iyo. Hindi ka na seseryosohin. Sino bang may
sabing magpaalila kayo, di naman namin hawak ang buhay niyo. Natural
lang na magtiis kayo, may gusto kayo sa amin eh. Kapag nakuha niyo na
iyon wala na lahat ng mga paghihirap niyo, babaliktad na ang
sitwasyon kami naman ang mamromroblema. Para lang kayong may gustong
bilhin na bagay. Upang mabili ito kailangan munang magsakripisyo,
magtipid, magtiis. Pag nabili na at napagsawaan wala na, balewala na.
Diyan ka na sa tabi-tabi. Tawagan nalang kita pag trip ko o kaya'y
pag may gusto akong ipagawa sa iyo.


Ano pa ba? E di sinagot mo na diba. Utang naloob pa natin yun. Dahil
naghirap daw sila sa panliligaw dapat masuklian natin iyon ng higit
pa. Sa umpisa kailangan malambing ka, maayos at laging magsisilbi sa
kanya. Ayaw daw nilang humawak ng relasyon, pero kapag ikaw naman ang
nagmando, aba, masasakal naman. Sasabihin pa sa iyo "demanding" ka.
Meron ka pang maririnig na "I think we need space" at kung anu-ano
pang ek-ek. Sino rin may sabing di dapat kami magpakabait, maging
devoted at faithful? Kapag kami ang sumaway niyang mga iyan, iba na
ang tingin sa amin. Malandi na kami, haliparot, pakawala, makikay at
kung anu-ano pang mga bansag ang itatawag sa amin. Kapag kayo gumawa
noon, ok lang. Lalake kayo eh, macho kayo pag ginawa niyo iyon. Kaya
kami. Walang magawa. Magpapakaburo at magpapakamadre nalang. Kapag
nagloko na kayo ano pa bang magagawa namin? Eh di iiyak nalang. Wala
namang ibang magagawa eh.


Tungkol naman sa tinatawag niyong pagdedemand namin. Hindi kami
nagdedemand! Karapatan lang namin iyon. Karapatan namin na lambingin
niyo kami, icheck at ipakita sa amin na mahal niyo kami.


Hindi rin ibig sabihin na mas sincere kayo sa amin. Seryoso rin naman
kami ah. At ang maturity wala yan sa edad. Mas maaga nga kaming
magmature sa inyo. Ang isang 19 year old na lalake eh, isip 15 pa
yun. It follows iyan sa lahat ng age group. Mas mataas pa nga kung
minsan ang pagbawas ng level of maturity. Kayo na ang mag-math. Pati
yung pag-iyak namin pinupuntirya niyo. Kesyo drama daw. Diba kapag
umiyak ka nagbuhos ka ng emosyon diyan. Ano tingin niyo sa amin mga
artista?!


Alam niyo iyon? Yun bang kulang nalang ay lumuha ka na ng dugo, pero
hindi ka pa rin papansinin. Sasabihan ka pang tigilan na ang
pagdradrama. Hindi nila kami maintindihan kapag nagseselos kami.
Bakit naman kami magseselos kung wala kaming nakikita? Mas iba kaming
magmahal. Mas masarap.


Kapag natapos na ang lambingan, eh di siyempre iwanan blues na. Kami
pa raw ang nagsawa, kami pa raw ang nagtritrip lang. Sino ba ang
lumalayas kapag may nakita nang bago, sino ba ang mayabang, sino ba
ang nagmamalaki? Kami ba? Kami ang walang choice. Kasi ang babae pag
sinabing "break na tayo" lambingin lang iyan ng konti balikan blues
na iyan. Kapag ang lalake ang umayaw, pucha, bahala ka diyan. Kahit
mag-tambling ka pa sa harap niya. Wa-epek. Umiyak ka ng bato.
Wa-epek. Tsk, tsk, tsk. Tapos sila pa raw ang kawawa.


Post-break up, mahal pa ng babae si lalaki. Sasamantalahin ni lalaki.
Magpapagawa ng kung anu-ano. Naaalala ka lang kapag may kailangan sa
iyo. Kapag pumangit ka after the break up, magpapasalamat sila na
iniwan ka nila. Kapag gumanda ka naman, ipagkakalat nila sa buong
sangkatauhan na naging girlfriend ka niya. Sala sa init sala sa lamig
talaga.


Ano ba namang buhay to? Ang hirap ding maging babae ano. Kala nila
laging sila nalang. Lagi rin kaming naiiwan sa ere. In-love din kami.


Ang mga lalake talaga, oo.



i love you because you saw me when i was invisible!